A Guide on How to Start Homeschooling

how to start homeschooling

No parent wants to see their child fall behind in school, so homeschool has become a must for many. The question is, how and where to start? There’s a lot to know. This blog will walk you through it all, step by step, from how to find the homeschool laws and limitations of your state, all the way down to how to get the most out of lesson plans. Armed with a little knowledge, you can do this! Let’s get started. 

Know Your State’s Homeschool Laws

Each state handles homeschooling differently. A few states require no notice. Other states require that you simply notify your state and/or local school authority (school board, county superintendent, etc.) that you’ll be homeschooling. Other states have more regulations or requirements through the state board of education. To research the laws in your state, you can visit the Home School Legal Defense Association’s website at HSLDA.org

The HSLDA advocates for homeschoolers and has free online resources, including a summary of homeschooling laws for each state

Know your state's homeschool laws
Information via HSLDA.org

Some Requirements Your State May Ask For Are:

  • Notification when you begin homeschooling
  • A scope and sequence of what your child will be learning that year
  • A copy of your child’s test and quiz scores
  • Samples of your child’s work
  • Standardized testing results
  • A portfolio of records, materials used, and samples of your child’s work to be submitted at the end of the year
  • An evaluation of your child’s portfolio by a certified teacher regardless of your state’s requirements

Just know that almost 2 million homeschoolers are meeting state requirements every day—and you can too! 

Some homeschoolers choose to keep a transcript of their child’s progress or participate in standardized testing even if it’s not required by their state. This makes for an easier transition if you move to a state with more homeschooling requirements. 

Choose Your Curriculum

Learning Preferences and Styles

You’ve probably heard a lot about learning preferences or learning styles—sensory, visual, auditory, etc. But here’s a tip: you don’t have to figure out your child’s favored learning preference before you choose a curriculum. 

Even if you already know your child’s learning preference, it’s important that you don’t look for a curriculum that tailors only to that one learning style. Instead, look for a curriculum that incorporates all the learning styles. 

Why? Think of it this way: if you just say a new concept out loud, you may not understand it or remember it. But if you say the concept, hear the concept, see the concept, and do an action or activity involving the concept, you’ll be much more likely to understand and remember it. 

If you need to, you can always supplement with more activities that favor your child’s learning preference. 

When you’re choosing a curriculum, consider one written by educators who’ve had experience communicating with your child’s age group. It’s one thing to understand a concept. It’s another to communicate it well to a particular age group. 

The Right Fit 

Picking your curriculum provider can seem overwhelming. There’s choice after choice, and they all promise results. So how do you choose? Start with these two key ideas to make your decision easier: 

  • Look for a curriculum that supports your family’s values and goals. 
  • Decide whether you want to use several curriculum providers (an eclectic approach) or one curriculum provider for all subjects (a unified approach). 

Your Values and Goals

First, answer these two questions: 

  • “What viewpoint do I want my child to learn from?” 
  • “What information and skills do I want him or her to know?” 

Then, as you evaluate the curriculum, look for the values important to each publisher. Do those values match yours? Are they the ones you want to be important in your child’s life and education? 

Keeping your values constantly in mind will help you narrow down your choices. (For example, if you want to teach your child a Christian worldview, look for a curriculum that helps you do that.) 

Next, consider your goals. Because you’re homeschooling, you have the flexibility to reach goals you may not have been able to otherwise. You can: 

  • Be more involved in what your child learns. 
  • Introduce more life skills. 
  • Give your child the opportunity to work in a family business or at a job. 
  • Go on field trips often. 
  • Have more time for extracurricular pursuits. 
  • Encourage your family’s closeness. 
  • Know your child is getting an excellent education at a price much lower than a private school’s. 

Figure out which general and specific goals you want to reach, then keep them in mind while you evaluate the curriculum. 

Your Approach

While the eclectic approach works for some families, the unified approach works better for others. Choosing which approach you’ll use just comes down to what your goals are and what works best for you. 

Eclectic Approach 

With an eclectic approach, you use a curriculum from several publishers. Some families choose this option because they want to tailor the learning for each subject to each child individually. 

Because each publisher’s curriculum will be organized differently, you’ll have the additional responsibility of taking extra care to make sure your child learns what he needs to learn in every subject area. (Many publishers cover the same topics at different times—often with different approaches.) 

To avoid accidentally skipping an important academic skill or concept and to make sure the teaching order makes sense, examine and compare each curriculum’s scope and sequence (learning objectives or outcomes by grade). You’ll find more details on how to do this in the next section.

Unified, Single-Curriculum Approach

With the unified approach, you choose just one publisher. The unified approach is a simpler, more economical way to homeschool—especially if you’re new to homeschooling, school multiple children, or have a tight educational budget. 

You won’t have to figure out how different publishers work or how to make everything work together. Your child will be familiar with the way things are taught in each subject, and you’ll both be able to quickly get into a routine. 

Using one publisher also makes it possible for the content in one subject to reinforce content in others. This reinforcement helps your child to see parallels between subjects and grasp concepts more fully. 

Even if you choose a unified approach, feel free to supplement learning with outside reading, projects, field trips, etc. Those “extras” are part of what makes homeschooling so flexible no matter what curriculum you’re using. 

If you have a tight educational budget that must meet the academic needs of multiple children, the unified approach is by far the more cost-effective because you can reuse materials year after year. 

To learn more about how to choose the best homeschool style for your family’s needs, check out this blog

Choosing the Right Teaching Materials

To ensure a great homeschooling experience, don’t just think about what your child needs. Think about what you need, too! 

You shouldn’t have to figure everything out on your own or have to wonder if you’re doing things right. That’s why the best publishers don’t offer just textbooks; they provide resources and materials that help you homeschool successfully. 

Look for publishers that offer lesson plans, teaching support materials, and instructions for how to use these materials effectively. Since homeschooling is an investment—an investment in your child and in your family—taking the extra care to make sure you have what you need is worth it. Most homeschooling families have found it helpful to have at least the materials below: 

  • Lesson plans from the publisher 
  • Lesson planner (if it doesn’t come in the lesson plans) 
  • Test/quiz keys for the subject/grade 
  • Answer keys for student books 
  • Teaching aids to illustrate concepts 

As you’re deciding, it’s helpful to look at the curriculum in person and talk to people who are using the curriculum you’re interested in. 

Determine Your Child’s Grade Placement

This phase will remind you what your child has done, show you what he or she is ready for, and help you decide which materials to purchase. Grade placement is one of the greatest options in homeschooling. Children who begin behind their grade can catch up! And both those who like the challenge of extra work and those who need more time find success. 

If you’re already confident that your child can start homeschooling in the grade level common for his age or that follows the last completed grade, skip this step and move on to the next section. 

First, get a good understanding of what your child learned the previous year. The easiest way to do this is to look at a scope and sequence, which shows how children should be developing academically—what they should be learning and when. 

Then look at the publisher’s curriculum for the next grade to determine if your child is ready to enter that grade. Many publishers produce a list of grade-level objectives. If this isn’t available, you can use the table of contents for each student book.

If you plan to use several publishers for different subjects, pay extra attention to your child’s progress and analyze the scope and sequence for each subject and each publisher. Don’t skip this step because missing foundational concepts will be difficult for your child. 

Scope and Sequence Comparison 

If a publisher doesn’t have a scope and sequence, you can also use something similar, like learning objectives with a table of contents. 

First, find the publisher’s scope and sequence for the grade just completed. 

Then find the publisher’s scope and sequence for the upcoming grade. 

Next, review the learning objectives, concepts, and table of contents for the last grade—one subject at a time—to get familiar with what your child has learned and what he or she can do. 

Then look at the publishers’ scope and sequence for the next grade. Compare the scope and sequences for these two grades side by side. 

Use this side-by-side comparison to assess whether your child has the knowledge and skills he needs to be ready for the next grade. 

How can you tell? The new grade should build on concepts he or she has already learned. For instance, if the new grade incorporates composition, your child probably wouldn’t be ready for it if he or she hasn’t learned yet how to read and write with comprehension. Everything doesn’t have to be perfectly matched, but you want the basics. There should be some review of concepts from the previous year, and everything new should be a logical next step in learning. 

Plan How Your Homeschooling Will Work

Homeschooling is, at its foundation, a lifestyle choice. Successful homeschooling families incorporate not only schoolwork, but also church activities, sports, music, volunteer opportunities, and family fun into their overall schedule. 

But in order to enjoy the lifestyle, you will need to determine at the start who’ll be responsible for what. Whether you decide that one person will handle all the homeschooling or that a combined effort works better, take time to plan. Here’s what your plan will do for you—save you time, set expectations, and keep you and your children from feeling lost about what to do next. These are the main things to think about: 

1. Who will do the teaching? (You can break this up by subject.)

2. Who will do the grading?

3. Who will keep the records? You can use the progress reports that may be included with your curriculum, find homeschool record-keeping templates for free online, or keep your records in a spreadsheet.

4. How will you organize the day? When you create a routine and consistently follow it, something happens—it gets easier.

As you plan, keep this in mind: you’ll be able to accomplish more if you homeschool during those times of the day that your children are most attentive and focused. Start by creating a schedule you think will work, then change it as needed throughout the year. If you’re not sure where to start, take a look at your curriculum’s lesson plans/schedule. Ask yourself, “How do I want our homeschool days to go?” Here are some preferences: 

  • Some families like to get it all done by noon. 
  • Some like to do a few subjects, then do a game, then finish up the subjects. 
  • Some structure the day like a school day (with lunch and P.E. times, etc.). 
  • Some do school in the afternoons or evenings. 
  • Some spend more time homeschooling each day so they can have a long weekend. 

Incorporate planning not only for schoolwork, but also for church activities, sports, volunteer opportunities, etc. After you’ve decided how you want your homeschooling day to go, make sure your vision is realistic and then plan around it. For example, it may sound great to fit five days of lessons into two days, but it wouldn’t be realistic for most families. 

5. How will you keep on track each day? Here are a few options:

  • Create daily work plans for your child and simplified lesson plans for yourself. (See the next section for tips.) 
  • Make colorful charts showing when to do each subject and when to take breaks. For more flexibility, laminate them and write on them with dry-erase markers. 
  • Decorate a bin for your child, then add folders for each subject. 
  • Use dry-erase markers to write the day’s work on laminated bookmarks for each subject. 

You could use a spreadsheet, a big calendar, a dry-erase board, or really anything that works for you. But however you do it, having a clear plan will help doing school go smoothly and drastically reduce the number of times you hear “What do I do now?” 

Make the Best Use of Lesson Plans 

The love/hate relationship parents have with lesson plans has much to do with how parents view their purpose. Are lesson plans a taskmaster—or are they a tool? 

To make the best use of your publisher’s lesson plans, treat them as a tool. How do you do that? 

1. Read the professional’s view of the lesson, realizing the authors have experience communicating these ideas successfully to many children the same age as your child.

2. While this input is valuable, it is meant to serve you, not to overwhelm you. With that in mind, read everything, but learn to extract only what you need. The extracted part is what you write down in your own lesson plans.

Read through the lesson plans one month (20 lessons) in advance. This way you can note potential field trips, etc. 

Make your own simplified written lesson plans one week (five lessons) in advance to keep them fresh in your mind. Many parents make planning a part of their routine, setting aside the same block of time every week (e.g., Saturday morning). 

3. In your own lesson plans, use one-word keys like those below to help keep things simple and consistent.

  • Review: List key review words in phrases such as “check p. 28,” “flash cards,” or “list of helping verbs.” 
  • New: List new material in a word or two. For example, “Teach adjectives.” 
  • Do: Today’s work, for example: “p.29 #1-5 together” (working with your child), “# 6-8 watching” (watching your child work). 
  • Glue: This is your child’s independent work that “glues” it all together. For example, “p. 29-30.” 

To learn more about what Abeka’s lesson plans have to offer, you can read about them here

If you’ve made it to the step of lesson planning, you may not feel like it, but you’re probably ready to dive in to this homeschool journey. But of course, when it comes to homeschool, there’s always more to know! And homeschool moms are the ultimate lifetime learners. 

So, for even MORE details about how to get started with homeschooling, including how to put together a portfolio, setting yourself up (and your “classroom”) for success, how to handle homeschooling more than one child, how to build a support network (which you will need), and how to actually GO, you can download a comprehensive PDF here


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